Thursday, October 10, 2019

Families in Mission- Where will your family serve?



I recently read this article about helping families serve in mission together, and I was instantly proud of the way our congregation at NRUMC encourages families to do this!

If you spend even just a few minutes on our new website you'll see SO MANY ways our church is in mission! From monthly hurricane relief trips to supporting over 75 backpacks of food every week for students in need. Our church's values call us to generosity- to serve and give to others, but also to exhibit courage! Serving as a family might mean giving up something else. I encourage you to be brave enough to SAY YES anyway,  even if it means saying no to something else... 

I pray that
 during this season that your family will take advantage of just a few of the mission opportunities that NRUMC offers. 


YAM JAM  - Oct. 12
-Come dig in the dirt and bag potatoes for the Society of St. Andrews!


Family Promise -Oct. 20-27
- Sign up to cook a meal or be an evening host!


SuperHero Run - Oct. 26
-For the fifth year, friends, family members, runners and walkers will come together to support two families who have suffered too much after their children were affected by rare diseases


UMW Holiday Market - Nov. 7/8
- Bring baked good or crafts to donate to the market.
- Donate used books
- Come shop the market and silent auction on Nov. 7

UMM BBQ- Nov. 8
-Order BBQ plates and Brunswick stew in advance to benefit local missions!



Visit our website to see even more mission opportunities!

“I have shown you in every way, by laboring like this, that you must support the weak. And remember the words of the Lord Jesus, that He said, ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.”  
Acts 20:35






Wednesday, October 9, 2019

Thoughts from a Small Group Leader- "Big O"


"If you build it they will come." The tag line made popular by the film Field of Dreams. The story followed an Iowa corn farmer who was being lead to build a baseball field in the middle of his corn field.  As it turns out the main reason he was led to do this was to recapture a chance to toss a baseball with his dad. 
Over the past few years North Raleigh UMC has been striving to create and energize a Youth Ministry program that lives up to our Churches "Vision Statement" to  glorify God and make disciples of Jesus Christ for the transformation of the world by offering a safe and caring environment for anyone who is searching to be spiritually fulfilled and accepted. Yes we stumbled over the past five years but I'm excited to say that all of the pieces necessary to live up to our goal are in place. The programs are being planned and your ministry team, Jen, Nick and a group of dedicated volunteers are eager to help you along the way.
We've "built it" now who's ready to come play in our corn field, or sweet potatoes if that's your yam. I am so encouraged by the participation we've had  on Sunday nights to start off this year. God has definitely been in the room, leading songs, playing games and speaking through your leaders with messages of encouragement. 
On a personal note though I would love to see a greater participation from the upper classes. We all recognize the many obligations and requirements on your time. With college applications, social events, jobs and school work it's hard to put aside those two hours on Sunday evening. However I also understand the importance of having that one place and time that you can relax and be refreshed, a Refuge- if you will. 
Come see us, Sunday evenings at 6:30PM. If you can't we'd still love to hear from you and know that you are OK. Contact Jen or Nick or any of your Small Group leaders. We are there to "have a catch" any time.
John "Big O" Owen.





Parent Article:
https://churchleaders.com/youth/youth-leaders-articles/336435-why-is-youth-group-important.html?fbclid=IwAR2Bo3nH2SFn8h-ZMaU3WIVWncMVgizEjw5z5yfZ8Cznmn746XGLdcxJeYc





Monday, August 26, 2019

August (Notes from Parent Meeting, Volunteering, and more!)





       Communication:
  • Help us best communicate with you by reading the YOUTH BLAST every Monday!
  • Follow us on Instagram (nrumc_youth) and join our Facebook page (North Raleigh United Methodist Youth Ministries) to stay informed on all upcoming ministry news!
  • If you have not yet done our online registration for the year, please fill it out ASAP. This form will not only register your student for Youth Group, Sunday School, Music and Creative ministries, but will also update your contact information for the year!
  • Our website (nrumc.org) got a makeover. Check it out!
  • Turn in a health/consent form for 2019-2020!

    Discipleship
  • Our goal is to make disciples who love and follow Jesus Christ. We strive to keep this priority at the forefront of all programming, activities, and events. 
  • It can be challenging to measure transformation and spiritual growth, but we have three strategies that we believe will help our ministry be sustainable and impact lives:
    • Intergenerational: We see and understand the importance of youth knowing and having relationships with individuals of all ages in our congregation, and recognize that our youth bring important gifts and abilities to our community.
    • Interconnected: We believe students benefit from being included in the WHOLE life of the church, its culture, and its mission. We long to see our church in mission together as the body of Christ, connected in ministry and in vision. 
    • Relational: Relationships are at the heart of our youth ministry. Our goal is to create a space where youth grow relationships with one another, with their ministry leaders, and most importantly with God. We believe this happens best through consistent small groups participation. 
  • Sunday School is designed to guide students in their biblical knowledge and understanding.
    High School Sunday School: 9-12th grade in room Y1
    Middle School Sunday School 6-8th grade in Youth Main Room
       Family Support:
  • Nick and Jen want to do all they can to support you as the spiritual leader in your families. Please let us know how we can be a resource for you and know that we pray for you regularly.
  • If you can do ONE thing to provide spiritual leadership for your family it's this:
    Be in worship together regularly.  (We can show you the research that says so.)
    Make serving together a priority this year. 
     Needs:
  • Adults to help at Kick-Off (Sept. 7 at Honeycutt Park)
  • Confirmation Table Leaders (Sundays 12:30-2:00pm)
  • Sunday School Teacher Subs (Sundays 9:45-10:45)
  • Meal Team for HS Fall Retreat (Sept. 20-22)
  • Golf Tournament committee members
  • Christmas Party Team

    Upcoming Events:
  • First Wednesday, Sept. 4
  • Kick- Off Party Saturday Sept. 7 at Honeycutt Park, 5-8pm, BRING $5 and invite a friend!
  • Registration deadline for HS Fall Retreat is September 15th!
  • Worship on the Lawn, Thursday September 19th  (This is a brand new event! Come support!)
  • High School (Guys and Gals) Fall Retreat September 20-22. Registration OPEN NOW!

Wednesday, April 10, 2019

April: Summer scheduling, Welcome Nick, Big Idea Photos

April 10, 2019



First of all, a HUGE THANK YOU to all who made Big Idea 2019 a weekend to remember!
Remember, you can view all the pictures from the weekend on our Shutterfly ShareSite.

Recap Video Links: https://youtu.be/gSPvssBkKLo     https://youtu.be/JHiQaGqG3iI
Thank you Sarah and Spencer for capturing the weekend in such an amazing and meaningful way!
I pray that all will continue to explore their calling to "Co-Create" with God through community.


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 We have a new Associate Director!  Nicholas Richart


NRUMC is thrilled to announce that Nicholas Richart will be joining our staff as the Associate Director of Youth Ministry beginning April 23rd, 2019. Nick is currently the Director of Youth Ministries at Central UMC in Shelby, NC where he has served for the past 3 years.  Nick grew up in Mooresville, NC and attended Appalachian State University graduating in 2015 with a degree in Religious Studies and a minor in Recreation Management. In his spare time Nick enjoys picking the banjo, rock climbing, and reading comic books.

We hope you will join us in praying for this transition in our youth ministry and warmly welcoming 
nick to our staff and our church community! ALL YOUTH AND PARENTS are invited join us in "officially" welcoming Nick on Wednesday May 1 6:30-8:00! If you feel led to bring a gift for Nick, we encourage gift cards to local restaurants and shops so that he can try all the places you love!


Please check out the last blog post about our current ministry needs! It will take a while for Nick to get his bearings and we need your help going forward!
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SUMMER YOUTH PROGRAMMING:
  • Beginning Sunday June 9th all youth grades 6-12 will meet in room Y1 for Sunday School.
    Summer Sunday school will be more casual as we read through Love Does by Bob Goff.
    Please let Jen know if you are able to help facilitate Sunday School this summer!
    Youth Sunday School classes will resume on Starting Point/ Promotion Sunday, August 25th
  • Beginning Sunday June 9th all youth grades 6-12 will meet on SUNDAY nights for youth group at our normal 6:30-8:00 time. There may be some weeks that we meet earlier for fun events so watch the Youth Blast and our Instagram so you're in the loop!
  • We are still in need of 2 adults each to attend our Middle School Mission trip June 16-22 and our High School Mission trip July 7-13.  Specifically we need adults who can serve as site leaders and lead housing repair projects. We MUST have additional adults sign up or we cannot attend these trips! Trip fees for adults will be waived.
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    View my Previous Blog Post on General Conference 2019 and The Way Forward

    Interesting in being involved in a Reconciling ministries?  (Contact Melissa Auten)






Tuesday, March 12, 2019

General Conference 2019




The following was shared with High School youth on Sunday evening March 10th as a way to educate students on UMC current events and polity. Please reach out if you have questions and know that all of our pastors are available and willing to speak with you.
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The General Conference of the global UMC met in St. Louis February 23-26, 2019. This body meets every 4 years and at the 2016 gathering of GC the conversation about the marriage and ordination of our LGBTQ+ friends was so much a point of contention that the GC decided to table the conversation and readdress it at a special GC session in 2019. A Council of Bishops was assembled to lead us in "The Way Forward" and find a plan that would keep the United Methodist church true to its name.
This Council proposed multiple plans that would keep us unified, but endorsed the plan they named the “One Church Plan”. The One Church plan was basically a 'states’ rights' type compromise allowing for individual conferences, congregations, and individual pastors to decide for themselves whether or not to marry or ordain LGBTQ persons. The plan that was ultimately passed by the General Conference is named "The Traditional Plan" and calls for keeping the current language as well as a more strict enforcement of the prohibition of ordination and marriage for LGBTQ+ persons.

A bit of UMC History:  in 1972 the current language of the Book of Discipline was added which currently reads that “homeosexuality is incapitable with Christian teaching" Therefore self-avowed practicing homosexuals are not to be certified as candidates, ordained as ministers, or appointed to serve in The United Methodist Church.

Essentially, adopting this "Traditional Pla"n means keeping the current language, and more strictly enforcing it which many are opposed to. The vote for the Traditional plan was by very small margin (3%) with the Majority of US Delegate highly favoring the "One Church Plan" instead.  Many pieces of the Traditional Plan are currently unconstitutional, specifically some of the “punitive” language or plans to punish those who go against this, and therefore The Traditional plan still has to go through the “supreme court” of UMC- through judicial review this April --- NO CHANGES will go into effect until January 2020 regardless- AND in May of 2020 we have our normal session of General Conference all over again.  This is not the end of this conversation for United Methodists.

We have to remember that we are a GLOBAL church. 
The One Church Plan was actually supported by 66% of our US delegation. The Traditional Plan passed by 53%, which is basically 45-50 votes out of over 800 total. (So when you’re old enough to vote in elections, don’t think for a second that your vote doesn’t count!) Each Annual Conference will elect delegates to General Conference this June-- so the 2020 session of General Conference will have newly elected delegates… Basically, this decision is not final and the conversation is far from over.
But MOST importantly:
God loves you and I do too. I believe our church will work to continue to welcome and love all of God's children in the life of our church. No one is saying that persons in the LGBTQ+ community are unwelcomed in our congregation, on our staff, in church leadership, to take communion or be baptized or that they will be denied any of those things…
We are called by God to be welcoming and create a community of faith for all persons. For those of you who may be part of the LGBTQ community or an ally to that community, please know that you are not alone and that you are loved in ways bigger than any words or decisions can communicate. If you need someone to talk to or someone to pray with you, please reach out to me or our other ministry leaders who love you dearly

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We hope that you will join us in prayer for our LGBTQ brother and sisters and continue to be the welcoming and encouraging community of believers that we know you to be. We have work to do!


Jen




More Resources: (To stay informed)
https://www.umnews.org/en/

https://nccumc.org/news/2019/03/gc2019-district-gatherings-recap-faq/

https://www.episcopalnewsservice.org/2019/03/12/episcopalians-methodists-ponder-full-communion-proposal-after-umc-vote/

https://lmtribune.com/northwest/one-step-forward-two-steps-back/article_d5b4d7ed-02a0-54ef-ad33-746f70af250d.html 

https://www.al.com/news/2019/02/united-methodists-dont-let-the-door-hit-you.html?fbclid=IwAR2PMp-GZsIHCtWQ5Fk2kpZHgZNjEZIpcvO41z3gwWC5CAUdtOiFujIdhT0 






Monday, March 11, 2019

March Update--Current Youth Ministry Needs. (Updated April 10)


Parents, please read below and find somewhere that you can help us this semester! Your support is greatly needed!Please reach out to me with questions.
Thanks in advance,
Jen

Mission trip Chaperones:
- MS Mission Trip/Tekoa- 1 Man and 1 Woman needed
- HS Mission Trip/ ASP- TWO Additional Site Leaders needed!


Send- Off Celebration for Cade: Sunday, April 28th
- Food (6-8pm)
- Set up (5:30-6:30pm)
- Clean Up (8-8:30pm)

Welcome Party for New Associate Youth Director:  Wednesday, May 1
- First Wednesday starts at 5pm-
- We will continue Rise against Hunger until goal is met
- S'mores and fire outside !

Sunday School Teachers:
- SUMMER  Sunday School 9:45 hour      from June 2-August 18th

Confirmation Celebration Dinner: (May 11)
- Set Up and Decorating
- Kitchen Team
- youth servers
- Clean up
- Photographer


Golf Tournament: 

- We still have room for a few more teams and we need more door prizes!!!
- Spread the word to help us get players and teams registered
    http://www.nrumc.org/golf-tournament/


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BIG IDEA: (March 29-31)
- Family Group Leaders   (We need 6 more adults!)
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdTRyatlxMUrSUbNwoWvOC6r0F7LE57FjxFMEkewp0yZg3TVQ/viewform
- Saturday Lunch Team (March 30, 11am-2pm)
- Saturday Dinner Team (March 30, 3-8pm)
- Sunday Clean Up/Reset Team (March 31, 1-2pm)
- Donate from our Wish List! https://www.signupgenius.com/go/20f0d4daaa923a0fd0-bigidea2 

Golf Tournament: 
- Join us this Saturday to go out for sponsorships!
 https://www.signupgenius.com/go/30e0e4da4a62b0-parent 

- Day Of Tournament Volunteer SUG (April 29th)  https://www.signupgenius.com/go/20f0d4daaa923a0fd0-april

- Spread the word to help us get players and teams registered
    http://www.nrumc.org/golf-tournament/